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Divorce is a difficult time for everyone involved. The splitting of a marriage can be especially hard if there are children involved. It can be a time full of questions and high emotions for parents and children, both. Our divorce attorney at the Lake of the Ozarks understands this can be a time full of emotional hurdles. Deputy & Mizell is here to point out some of the ways you can show your support for your children during this challenging time as their world flips upside down. Deputy & Mizell, Injury Attorneys near Lake of the Ozarks1. Have an open conversation.  When breaking the news to your child, it’s important to prepare them for the conversation. Let them know what is going on by sharing as much details as you feel comfortable sharing. The amount of information may vary depending on the age of your children. This initial conversation will help your child feel like they are involved and a part of the conversation. Being left in the dark and not knowing what’s going to happen can be scary for kids. Comfort your child and let them know that while things may be changing, the love of both of their parents will not change.   2. Answer questions in an honest and thoughtful way.  Your child will likely have many questions about the big news you are breaking to them. Try to answer all questions as it can help ease the uncertainty your child may have. It’s okay if you don’t know all the answers to specifics, but give an honest answer that you are not sure but as soon as you have that figured out, they will be the first to know. If your child is old enough, their opinion on how things should be arranged may be taken into consideration with the final judicial ruling. Sharing this information with your child can help them feel like they have a little control in a circumstance that is out of their hands.   3. Keep the conversation positive.  As you share that things will be changing, ensure you include positive aspects of the situation to keep your child optimistic. Divorce is an emotional roller coaster but that doesn’t mean your child has to be along for the ups and downs. It can be difficult to put on a happy face and make the best out of your situation, but it can be much easier for a child to deal with the stress and uncertainty if the parental example is a positive one. Deputy & Mizell, Injury Attorneys near Lake of the Ozarks4. Find other places to vent.  Divorce is hard and full of emotions. Your child should not be the person who you share your frustrations and anger with. Try to find another source to share your negative feelings — like a friend or other family member. Remember, when you speak negatively about your child’s other parent, you are leaving a lasting impression on them. No one likes to hear people speak ill of their parents and it’s even more awkward when it comes from your other parent. Try to keep your feelings of anger away from your children.   5. Attend child’s events.  It can be uncomfortable to be around your ex-spouse but it’s even more so important to be present for your child during this challenging time. It’s not your child’s fault that you and your spouse did not work out. Don’t let your negative actions or actions of avoidance be taken out on your child. Kids remember who was there for extracurricular activities and it’s important that you show your support. Now that you know these ways you can better support your child during a divorce, you’re ready to put these tips into action. If you’re thinking of filing for divorce near the Lake of the Ozarks, our experienced attorney in Camdenton, MO is here for you. We understand this is an emotionally trying time and Deputy & Mizell can help you navigate the uncertainties you’ll soon be facing. At the end of the day, it’s vital to put your children first, no matter what challenges you face.    
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